Sunday, May 3, 2015

Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters

Genesis 25:20
The Voice (VOICE)
20 and Isaac was 40 years old when he married Rebekah (the daughter of Bethuel the Aramean of Paddan-aram, sister of Laban the Aramean).

While driving a truck with my cousin’s goods in it from Idaho to Southern California, I listened to Meg Meeker’s Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters. She outlined the current practices of a majority of teens and pre-teens. To say that I was stunned and shocked is to put it mildly.

Some years ago the women’s dean at the university told us that today’s students are expected to perform some kind sexual gratification as early as on the first date. They are in constant fear of contracting some kind of sexually transmitted disease. I listened, amazed and in sorrow, about today’s loose morals.

When I was a kid there were only two sexually transmitted diseases (STD’s) that anyone worried about: Syphilis and Gonorrhea. But those diseases are curable, so they are merely an annoyance. Dr Meeker, a pediatrician, points out that today there are over 24 different STD’s. Many of these, like HIV/AIDS and Herpes, are not curable. HIV/AIDS has been in the news for decades. Herpes is passed on not only by transmission of human fluids but also by mere contact such as holding hands. It is a known cause of cancer of the cervix. In the New York Times (May 4, 1982) Dr Clyde Crumpacker pointed out that the Herpes virus is blamed for more human diseases than any other virus[i]

Meeker claims that a significant percentage of girls between 10 and 15 are expected to perform oral sex, often in group situations. Since sexuality is encouraged by public media such as TV and magazines, the girls think about it all the time. She insists that teen depression should be considered as a STD because the girls become depressed since they normally do not enjoy the sex and consider themselves to blame.

She claims that fathers are the only real solution to reversing the trend and giving their daughters the ability to resist being sucked into this tragic lifestyle. They can get girls to value their virginity until marriage like Isaac did of old. Of course, she encourages dads to take control of their own lives and commit to a lifestyle connected with a higher power. She points out that this higher power is usually the Judeo-Christian God. She also urges fathers to do everything in their power to prevent divorce. She blames radical feminism for poisoning wives’ minds into thinking that they are not living up to their potential by remaining married.

Lord God almighty, bring us back from lackadaisical parenting to being the strong, responsible parents that can reverse the self destructive direction our society is moving.



[i] http://www.nytimes.com/1982/05/04/science/herpes-now-blamed-for-more-illness-than-any-other-human-viruses.html
[ii] http://cdn.sheknows.com/articles/2010/06/father-daughter-reading-outside.jpg

1 comment:

  1. I have found this to be very educating. Herpes can be transmitted through mediums other than sexual intercourse, as I had leaned to understand. It is partly responsible for causing cervix cancer which is now on the upsurge in Tanzania.
    Some one is not very transparent. The government of Tanzania is now officially encouraging all men to get circumcised due to the fact that, '... a correlation has been established between Cervix Cancer and uncircumcised men'. Except for the warrior tribes, majority of the men, hitherto in Tanzania as elsewhere in Africa, go uncircumcised.

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